I added optifine because the first 4 times I tried to launch into the server I crashed so I put optifine to help with that.
hopefully it works.

Hm… we stopped including Optifine in our mod pack a couple of versions back because it has a tendency to break textures from some mods, but on the other hand, I know that Version 6 is very resource-intensive due to being based on 1.10. You'll have to let us know if Optifine resolves your problems, and if it breaks any item textures!

yep fixed it for the most part Jacob I only experience a little bit of lag spikes when logging in, but after that its fine so I was able to get some tools and matierials.

I will be getting a base set up soon so hopefully no one raids it. It's at times like these I wish I could just set up a town.
ps. I will be fixing your bee problem at spawn so no one dies from the damage.